I accept it because regardless of VAR there will always be mistakes made. If the process is followed through to its conclusion (i.e. VAR check, recommend OFR) everything has been done to reach the correct decision and even if it still leads to the wrong decision I can accept it as a fan. It is perfectly possibly to accept a decision and still be annoyed that a different outcome has not been reached; the two are not mutually exclusive.I guess the red is where you continue to lose me. I just can't understand why you would accept what you consider a clear and obvious error just because the R looked at it on the monitor down at the field? I just don't understand why you are willing to accept the R making that error and not the VAR making that error, as it is exactly the same error. (Indeed, if anything, I think it is actually easier for the R to get right than the VAR; the VAR has to find and evaluate possible angles while being aware that he is holding up the game, etc., whereas the R gets shown the best angles at the OFR screen and knows that an experienced referee has already deduced that he made a clear error.)
On this occasion, the referee was not given the chance to correct a clear and obvious error, which I cannot accept.