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    RDO CFA questioning me

    Just got an email from my County RDO asking me to explain a report that was sent in about me by an official of a club that input a report in for misconduct ! The club responded with a lie ridden statement and now I’m being asked to explain myself by my RDO !!! I have to say this make me want to...
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    Abuse and Decision Making

    I had exactly the same yesterday !!! Parents coming onto the pitch ! Players fighting U13s I said I was going to abandon but after talking to the two managers and got them to warn their players that at the next sign of trouble I would abandon !! Probably right in the end as the game finished ok...
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    Open Age Worst game ever

    I had exactly the very same two Weeks ago see my post nightmare game ! It looks like all my reports went through ok as I’ve heard nothing so it seems all the punishments will be handed out ! But I felt exactly the same as you do honestly !! But I’m going to try and keep going ! But I feel for...
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    U11 Caution

    Be careful about the facial bit lol
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    U11 Caution

    Spa?????
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    Nightmare game

    Thank you I needed that advice
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    Wrong Colour

    I had the same on sunday yes there are loads of do gooders who do no wrong on here mr perfects like me we messed up and st least we are trying to put it right thank you to all the good refs on here who try to HELP us and not shoot us down y
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    Nightmare game

    Don’t talk to Me about children with the abuse they give to us refs I had a 11 year old call me a bald C—T on the FTFOP they can do this but when one enforces TLOTG to them it’s wrong although YES I AGREE WITH YOU IT WAS HARSH AND MAYBE WRONG and this will be a learning curve but please with...
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    Nightmare game

    Thank you ! Yes they left the field of play ! completely ! They did NOT ask !! If one does not set a precedent then do they all start going off en mass !! And they are 14 year olds and not 10 year olds which one might allow them to go off TFOP without permission but I hear what every one is...
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    Nightmare game

    I agree
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    Nightmare game

    This is also such great advice and is making me see things a little differently now ! After just qualifying one tends to want to apply the laws as they teach you on the course ! Or why do it ? But I see now where I must improve and change ! Thanks for the advice
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    Nightmare game

    Thank you yes I totally totally agree with you I Got that one well wrong a big big learning curve
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    Nightmare game

    Thanks guys great advice ! Yes I could have done things differently particularly the going off FOP without permission that started it all really but they are 14 year olds with other mistakes that may have happend I did not need to be talked to like the way they was talking to me for all the...
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    Nightmare game

    Ok Sunday was a nightmare for me after having 9 games with no trouble it then all comes along ! Sunday u14 fixture cup game Game starts ok I must admit I had a slight mix up with Lino’s not being in the right position but they did not say anything to me till I’d kicked off ! But the game starts...
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    Kit or no kit

    My boy as ask me to do a friendly for him tommotow under 12s does one wear there refs kit ir because it’s unofficial just turn up in track suit !! ?? It’s me doing him a favour as no one will ref his games but I don’t want to Look like mr silly just for a Saturday morning unofficial game advice...
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    Coin toss !!

    Thanks thought ni
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    Coin toss !!

    Stupid this one but when one does the coin toss is it home capt or away capt that younadk to call it ! Never been told ! Never sure
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    Exam night !!!!!!!!!

    Not sure i left did not wait around the pass mark was 29 a few got under only tree choice questions not four I’m happy enough although I know u still have a lot of work to do !! Bring it on
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    Exam night !!!!!!!!!

    Understood !! A lot of us got around that mark !! One young lad got 42 ! Bit of nerves set in imman older ref so did not think I’d ever be sitting exams again lol ! There was one who only got 12 ermmm
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    Exam night !!!!!!!!!

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