youwhatref?!
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I was meant to be on the line on Sunday for a league game, however that was called off. A mate of mine runs a supporters team, who had a friendly against an ex-league local side (reds), who were a group of mates who partialy knew this supporters team, anyway he was after a ref so I'd do it.
Turned up to the game, and had a bad feeling about it, anyway I got started and I didnt think I was being too well, but the reds clearly disagreed. always in my ear, 2 yellows must've been given inside the first 20 minutes for dissent, and was doing my best to control it. Anyway, around the 23rd minute, I awarded the supporters team a penalty. Reds captain, who conceded the penalty. came running upto me screaming with his arms up, tried my best to calm him down and shown him a yellow. Still wasnt happy! Walked off still abusing me, so I called him back and warned him again. He walked off and continured to call me a 'cheat' and a '**** ref', called him back again, second yellow and a tomato is shown.
I go to take my position for the penalty as he walks off the pitch, I try looking for him to check whether he was gone, but no where to be seen, and thats when he comes behind me and gives me a nice push in the back. Luckily, the reds players were quick to react and get hin away otherwise I quite think it would've been a lot worse! Let the penalty be taken, and that was it. Game over, wasn't having any more of it as i knew it was going to get worse, and the player was still hanging around, giving me dirty looks when I looked over and still continuing to add how I am a '****' referee.
As I walked off, I was informed he is actually a qualfied coach who had recently been on a temporary ban for abusing referees. Am I in the rights to report him to his county FA with regards to this? Or as it wasn;t a non-sanctioned game, would they not want to know?
Thats the last of non-sancationed games for me i think.
Turned up to the game, and had a bad feeling about it, anyway I got started and I didnt think I was being too well, but the reds clearly disagreed. always in my ear, 2 yellows must've been given inside the first 20 minutes for dissent, and was doing my best to control it. Anyway, around the 23rd minute, I awarded the supporters team a penalty. Reds captain, who conceded the penalty. came running upto me screaming with his arms up, tried my best to calm him down and shown him a yellow. Still wasnt happy! Walked off still abusing me, so I called him back and warned him again. He walked off and continured to call me a 'cheat' and a '**** ref', called him back again, second yellow and a tomato is shown.
I go to take my position for the penalty as he walks off the pitch, I try looking for him to check whether he was gone, but no where to be seen, and thats when he comes behind me and gives me a nice push in the back. Luckily, the reds players were quick to react and get hin away otherwise I quite think it would've been a lot worse! Let the penalty be taken, and that was it. Game over, wasn't having any more of it as i knew it was going to get worse, and the player was still hanging around, giving me dirty looks when I looked over and still continuing to add how I am a '****' referee.
As I walked off, I was informed he is actually a qualfied coach who had recently been on a temporary ban for abusing referees. Am I in the rights to report him to his county FA with regards to this? Or as it wasn;t a non-sanctioned game, would they not want to know?
Thats the last of non-sancationed games for me i think.