When Taylor reviews this game he will wish he gave a foul in the build up to Spurs first goal. Yes, it might have been soft, but no one would be talking about it now and they are certainly talking about what happened since. Don't think VAR could get involved as there was a slight touch on the ball and it was too long before the goal.
Romero on Cucurella has to be a red card, not sure if the ball was in play though so could have been a corner retake or DFK.
Tuchel should have got a second caution when he celebrated their second goal by legging it down the touchline. Perhaps not if he had run the other way, but he deliberately ran straight through Spurs's technical area just after it had all kicked off, that's as inflamatory as it comes and an easy second caution to take the heat out of things.
Then at the end, Tuchel has very clearly crushed Conte's hand at the handshake. It was childish at the very least and exactly what is wrong with football at the moment, it was embarrasing. These are grown adults acting like 12 year olds, throw the book at them and make an example.