I've skim read the 5 pages of this thread, so feel i've earnt the right to weigh in
I became a referee because I love football and I wanted to give something back to the game that treated me well, also I enjoy learning and saw the role of the referee as a new challenge. I also saw refereeing as a way to remain involved in football without having to be fully committed (
not having to do it every weekend), what I mean by this is if your a parent, coach, secretary or chair person, your time commitment is MASSIVE, and guess what, you aren't paid for any of it!
I didn't sign up to be a referee because I need the £30, or need financial recognition, whilst I appreciate that this is why others may have become referee's, the match fees are transparent and you know what you will be earning at each game and each level, and that should tell you that you aren't going to be paid enough or even the equivalent of 'living wage', if you aren't happy with the fee then it's simple, don't referee.
I would suggest that if money is your
main motivator, then refereeing probably isn't the job for you because none of us are going to walk into the select group and earn £50k a year as a referee. Whether it's refereeing or a professional career, you have to start at the bottom, you have to make sacrifices, earn rubbish money and also decide whether this is the career path for you.
As for raising the point on privilege, and this gets you ahead in refereeing, I am not going to dispute that... all I will say is privilege is in every walk of life. The top level referee's
may come from privileged backgrounds, they may have got a headstart, but they still had to work their backside off to get to the top. The same applies to a large majority of professional sportsmen and women, CEO's and MPs.